A little Birdie told me

The world is full of negative thoughts. People are self adsorbed with their own issues that sometimes they can say and do things to others that is not that kind. You need to have a birdie in your ear saying “YES I CAN” at all times. You are worth it, you do deserve it and you can achieve anything you set your mind to. We all are born with one common ability and that is to choose to be nice and kind or mean and negative. It is a choice I choose to be positive and reflect that into the environment the return I feel will be much greater. When others dont feel the same way I have to stop their words from penetrating my life. It amazes me how a few words from someone can impact someones life so deeply that they become paralyzed and can not move forward. Just think of the few seconds it took for them to disrupt your world and were are they moments later moved on not thinking at all of the impact they just had. DONT GIVE THEM CONTROL. Here are a few steps to accomplish this very big task:

  1. USE A MIRROR: Say positive words about you to yourself. Look in the mirror and tell yourself, You are a caring person, you are beautiful, you are kind, you do deserve it
  2. MONEY: Having wealth does not mean you are superior to others. It does not buy you respect. Respect is earned. Money is just a tool we use to surround ourselves with materialistic things. Knowledge when shared will earn you the respect of your colleges and friends.
  3. GOALS: Set your goals for the future, map them out, write them down and read them on a daily basis until you are living them.
  4. ONE WORD: Think of ONE WORD you can say over and over in your head when someone is directing negative thoughts at you. This word has the power to deflect off any thing that comes your way. The word that works for you may not work for others our one word penetrates so deeply into our conscious mind it speaks to us creating a wall so strong.
  5. APPEARANCE: First impressions are lasting impressions. Make sure before leaving your home you look in the mirror and LOVE they way you look. You will enter a room with an air of confidence that will be reflected to others they will see the confidence in your walk and smile. They will want to get close to you because you reflect positive energy.

Never let others live for you. I always like to say “They dont pay my bills” so what gives them the right to tell me what and how I should live. You need to have that birdie in your ear constantly reassuring you. Success comes to those who go from failure to failure without ever losing their enthusiasm.

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Michele Molinaro

I have been a business owner for over 25 years but can say for the first time; “I own my business it doesn’t own me.” I have traded in my Brick and Mortar for a Click and Order. This gives me financial and time freedom. My business is operates 24 hours a day 7 days a week with no employees. I wake up when I am done sleeping and am able to work anywhere in the world there is a WiFi connection.

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